For a species and population that talks about love and relationships so much you’d think we actually have more healthy ones. So much information out there but yet the quality of the people are getting worse. We either love Love or love to hate it. So much information and that’s the problem and the solution. …
When I say I don’t want to be strong I’m not talking about physical strength, I’m talking about everything else. I’m talking about the strong woman complex and most especially the strong black woman complex. Some way, somehow it became a standard and a norm to be tagged as strong. In some cases this is …
It is easy for us to lie to ourselves. It is easy for us to run away from the truth. It is easy for us to create illusions and believe them wholly and completely. It’s easy to create a mask that fits into the perception we have created. Is easy to believe in the words …
Today was such a good day. I slept early last night and woke up early. It felt good to do something different. I did my social media run and then I saw a post on Instagram that touched me differently. Photo that inspired this that I claim no right over I didn’t want to think …
I don’t think I’ve never talked about relationships and dating, and stuff like that on here but I think I should. Not today though. As usual life has brought another lesson to my doorstep. It wasn’t one that I am unfamiliar with, but it wasn’t something I particularly noticed. It’s just something that has happened …
You call, he doesn’t answer. You text, he doesn’t reply. You are always there for him; he’s never there for you. You give him full parts of yourself, he gives you pieces of crumbs of who he is. He says one thing but does another. You deserve so much more than this. You know it …
ME (17TH NOVEMBER 2024) I’ve been doing some self-reflection lately and it made me notice certain things, both in the general concept and about myself as a person. One of those things is that we are a very biased species especially when it comes to our personal beliefs about ourselves. When we believe we are a …
I think for the first time in a long time I am being haunted by the memories of a lover. For a long time, I have thought that something was wrong with me. I have thought that I may have incurred an incurable disease that makes me unable to feel pleasure. I could achieve it …
I look in the mirror and I see the reflection of me, not the me that I like but that I despise. She’s nothing like the image of me in my head. She’s worse. She’s a thorn in my side. She’s the person I try so desperately hard not to be but here she is looking …
ME (19th NOVEMBER 2023) He said I was the rainbow in his life. I was colourful and filled with so much vibrance that he never wanted our time to end, but all things must come to an end. Everyday my sparkle was too enchanting to be ignored so the attention of his was never wavering. Then …
