I have written about rape before, but this is different. It’s like the more forward we come as community, the further back we drive ourselves still. How can we still be arguing about people’s outfit choices when there are people dying of hunger around us! How can our major topic of discussion be what’s your body count when wars are killing innocent lives.
I don’t like to get political, and I won’t but when the fuck will we gets our priority straight. There is no excuse that justifies rape, not a fucking single thing! Whether she’s a prostitute or a call girl it doesn’t fucking matter! Just because she’s a sex worker doesn’t mean she’s any less human than you!
What even gives you the right to make that decision in the first place! NO! Fucking means NO! Why is that word so hard to grasp!
Why must somebody’s body be your right?
It’s better now though but it’s still worse. At least we aren’t blaming the woman for going out late or dressing inappropriately or for simply existing. Some people are still stuck in that ideology so they can royally go fuck themselves. But even as we have accepted that the victim isn’t the problem, there is still less persecution for the rapist. Except you’re caught in the act the consequences aren’t as severe.
More than 80% of every woman in the world has a story of sexual misconduct or rape, but somehow no man knows any rapist. Your friend acts like a bastard towards women, harasses them when he doesn’t get his way while you just shut your mouth and stand there like coward that you are. Silence counts as compliance; the same way a rapist takes her silence as agreement/consent.
Just because you don’t do it too doesn’t make you any better. You are part of the problem because you aren’t doing anything to fix the problem. Until fellow men start checking their fellow men on how they act what they say, it will continue to get worse as it has gotten now. They feel they can get away with it and because the people around them aren’t saying anything they will only get bolder. Why must we bring the situation closer to home by saying what if it was your sister or daughter that this happened too before men have empathy for people?
So because she isn’t related or close to you suddenly her life doesn’t matter? So because she is it related or close to you she deserves that type of treatment? When will we see the silence is compliance! When will we actually give shame to the people that actually deserve it! When would empathy become mandatory instead of optional!
It sickens me how depraved people are becoming because fathers raping daughters is becoming way too common. When we decide to say what was she wearing? Where was she? How late was it? Why wasn’t she at home? What will we then say about the daughters that are not even close to 13 years old that are sleeping on their beds at home when full grown men come into their room late at night to violate them. Who is the blame? Is it the little girl? The barely developed child there hasn’t even discovered puberty, is she to blame? Was she out late in her bedroom sound asleep?
She was in the comfort of her home surrounded by people she trusted, surrounded by people supposed to be family but she wasn’t still safe. Then who is safe? If an underage child is not safe at home what about the rest of us?
Father’s, uncles, brothers, family friends, teachers, drivers, nannies, the list is endless. Violating an innocent child just because they can and then getting away with it! That’s the true crime.
Now their doctors having patients under anesthesia and then misusing that opportunity to violate their patients. Is anyone truly safe?! Because what the actual hell! Every single day it just keeps getting worse and fucking worse.
Even children are becoming evil. Parents are raising monsters and they’re justifying it. A child is touching someone’s boobs, not a toddler that we can stay it’s child curiosity, a child within the age of 6 to 10 that actually knows right from wrong. And they do that, then you report to the parents and stupid individual says ‘oh he’s just a child’ ‘boys will be boys’ so why the fuck can’t girls be girls! Why most girls cover up and be decent to prevent boys from being tempted? Why is the topic not discipline and self-control? Why don’t we teach people mutual respect? That every human deserves respect. That every human has rights and it’s not optional to expect it.
We gain so much level of forwardness and lose more at the same time. Because how can you as a woman, a mother even, blame a child for the actions done against her by a man old enough to be her father. A man that is supposed to be a protector and know better. You hide the shame from who is supposed to be ashamed and place it on the victim. You protect them from consequences and even punish the victim.
You hide and protect them because you think it protects you. You believe the shame of being associated with rapists is far worse than the rape itself. Somehow motherhood and marriage matter more than the crime that was committed. More than a child’s trauma! Fucking sick people everywhere!
You are a monster as well. If you hide a monster you yourself are a monster.